Women empowerment is one of the most powerful movements in 2021. It’s so important to make every single lady around us to feel confident and appreciated. My entire blog is focused on women empowerment and development. Also, many of you might know that I’m a fashionista at heart. Therefore, I decided to share a little secret with you. How to use fashion to feel confident.

First of all, fashion and emotions have always been somehow connected. I think fashion is one of the most common ways of expressing ourselves. By using colours, prints, patterns and clothes you can show your interests and personality type. Wouldn’t it be amazing if you could learn how to be more confident with fashion?

Well, if that sounds interesting enough for you, read on!

Find your personal style

Everyone fits into a certain Fashion Pattern. Depending on the music you listen to, the films you enjoy watching, the books you read, you can easily define your personal style. For example, some people prefer colourful outfits and others prefer all black outfits. In fact, some people dress in the specific style of certain eras (the 00’s, the 90’s …).

The point is that once you find your style, your self-confidence will start to grow. Why? It’s simple, you’ll feel like yourself. As long as you feel good and find pieces of yourself in your outfits, your self-confidence and positive vibe will come naturally.

Finding your style might sound difficult. However, the journey itself is unforgettable. Start with creating a mood board using different inspirational pictures. You can look for inspiration on Instagram, Pinterest or Tumblr. Once you’re done, observe all these styles until you find the one that represents you the most. All this research can take a while, so brew a coffee and immerse yourself into the beauty of defining your personal style!

Walk, walk fashion baby

As Lady Gaga said, you have to hold your head up high and walk like the whole world is your runaway ! Walking can make a tremendous difference to the way people look at you. If you’re surrounded by people who look at you with admiration, your self-confidence will boost.

As for fashion and how it can help you – let’s talk about heels! Platforms, stilettos, wedges, peep toes, ankle straps. There are countless pairs of heels that can stand out in the crowd. For example, a pair of black stilettos will make you look elegant and classic. Your vibe will be straight out of a film noir! However, sandals and heels with interesting appliqués will bring your creativity out.

Therefore, high heels have an impact on your posture, vibe and style – they will significantly increase your confidence level.

Having a problem with colours?

Many people tend to feel quite insecure while wearing colours. If you happen to fit into this category, these pieces of advice are for you. Neutral colours such as white, black, nude are not only easier to accessorise and match but they might help you with your confidence. It’s a fact that most of the people tend to feel more like themselves and to be confident while wearing black for example. Considering that I’m a women empowerment blogger, my suggestion for you is to chose the colours that make you feel empowered.

All this colour theory will help you dress the way you feel. If you’re heading out in town on an evening, you can go for an all black outfit. However, put on red heels or lipstick in order to make a statement. Red mixed with black will always be a classic and elegant option. You will not only feel comfortable, but you’ll also rock your fit and be in the spotlight.

All things considered, you CAN use fashion in order to boost your confidence. It’s important to feel like yourself and to be comfortable in your own clothes. It doesn’t really matter how you approach your style, after all, it’s important that YOU like your aesthetic. Embrace your uniqueness and walk your way to confidence! Also, if you want to read more women empowerment articles, click here!

Don’t forget to slide in my Instagram DM’s (@notagirlygal) if you have any questions!

Until next time,

Miss Andrada


Have you ever felt like you can achieve a lot more than the results you’re seeing? You know yourself, you have that ambition that sticks to others and makes them become more ambitious, but something is stopping you from taking the leap and jumping right in. I’m going to share with you five tips on becoming your most confident self and turning your dreams into reality. Action your life now!

  1. Say NO to your fear

Believe it or not, what keeps you from achieving your inner goals is your fear of not loosing. Loosing what? The ‘game’ that you tend to turn most of the things you do into. In reality, there’s no such thing as loosing. You simply find different ‘destinations’ according to the path you’re choosing. Eliminate the fear from your mind, stop being afraid of different consequences because your mind is a powerful tool and can easily adapt to any situation. The worst thing that we can do is have expectations and then be disappointed of the reality. It’s like you paint this picture of eating the most delicious meal tonight, but there’s nothing there to guarantee the restaurant or the dish you’re going for will be the best meal of your life. You need to leave mystery and just enjoy your life without planning every single step of your journey. Now you’ll ask me, ‘Ok, but what if I’m disappointed’? You simply WON’T! You need to find a balance within yourself and learn to enjoy moments and outcomes to the fullest.

2. Become your biggest fan

Who can love yourself more than you love yourself? You need to fully love yourself with all you have and truly believe that you will achieve everything you put your mind to. Do more things with yourself and enjoy your own company. The abundant Universe will respond positively to your self-empowerment. Do you have an idea for an online business but people think it’s risky? Forget their opinions. They’re based on their or other people’s experiences. We are all different, what works for you might not work for others and the other way around. Thing is, there is no such thing as risk. I know. Let’s say that again together: there is no such thing as risk. 

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3.  Start seeing yourself as a powerful person

Do you think you’re powerful? How do you define power within one self? You probably have role models, people who you look up to and admire for their strong personality. Do you know what they have, maybe a little bit more than yourself? Confidence. Being confident will make you powerful. Trust yourself. Believe in your own power. We all have something amazing within ourselves! Don’t let negative thinking bring you down and just focus on your strong characteristics. It’s like in a job interview, you play on your strengths, not your weaknesses. Do the same in life and you’ll live happily!

4.  Speak positively – use your own positive words

How many times do you find yourself complaining during the day? Seriously now, start to notice how many times you say something negative. Moaning about stuff is really natural for some, even for myself. It took me a long time to educate myself to spread less negative vibes and turn my life around. I know it’s not fun and games 24/7 but let’s stop playing the victim. Ultimately, we’re a product of how we react to things happening around us. Our reactions make up the life we want to live. You smashed your favourite glass by mistake? Are you getting angry and start cleaning in a rush? Or are you at peace with yourself and think ‘life goes on, I’ll get a better one tomorrow’? If you’re getting angry, you might cut your finger and one unfortunate event will follow another one. If you decide to be cool about it, you have something to look forward to: your new glass. Notice how your reaction really influences the flow of things in your life. So, start using your positive words and notice their impact in both daily life, but also reaching your goals.

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5. Practice the power of daily meditation and positive affirmations

You believe in a positive life. Say that to yourself during a daily meditation. Find a phrase that you really love and make that your motto. Even more than that, stick post-it notes on your fridge, desk or mirror to constantly remind yourself that you’re up to something great. Remember, having an image of your ideal life is great! Don’t feel the need to meet every single aspect of it as we need to keep that mystery we discussed about previously. Let the Universe know that you’re open to whatever goodness is throwing at you. You’re going to become stronger, hence more and more confident as everyday goes by.

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There you have it, my top five tips on becoming your most confident-self! I’m sure they will stay at the base of you achieving your plans in life. I really believe that confident people rule the world. Your turn, let me know if the comment section below, what do you do to become more confident?

Lots of love,